Mike Lawler, MFT-IT

Couples, Teen & Family Therapy in Madison, WI

Meet Mike

As a cancer survivor and adoptive parent, I know firsthand how life’s challenges shape us. These experiences inform my work as a therapist, bringing compassion, calm, and a deep belief that healing happens in relationships. I take a systemic, identity-affirming approach to support couples, teens, families, and individuals, with relationship work at the heart of my practice.

Who I work with:

  • Couples who want to reconnect and rebuild trust

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  • Men working through stress, identity, and men’s mental health

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  • Individuals managing anxiety, depression, or ADHD

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  • Teens facing anxiety, school pressure, or family conflict

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  • Families navigating conflict and communication

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My Approach & Style

I draw on specialized training in the Gottman Method to help couples navigate challenges, rebuild trust, and deepen connection. With teenagers, I create a space where young people feel safe, seen, and supported through the complexities of adolescence, whether the struggle stems from anxiety, depression, ADHD, school pressures, family dynamics, or social environments. I also support adults with anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and I have a particular focus on men’s issues, helping men navigate the pressures around identity, emotional expression, relationships, and life transitions.

My style is warm, collaborative, and active, and I integrate self-awareness practices and meditation as tools for personal and relational growth.

Modalities: Gottman Method for Couples, Motivational Interviewing

About Mike

Mike Lawler, MFT-IT, is a marriage and family therapist at Modern Thrive Counseling in Madison, WI. As a marriage and family therapist in training, he practices under the supervision of a licensed clinician. [CONFIRM: Supervisor, Nicole Krapf LMFT, Marriage and Family Therapy from, Edgewood University in 2025. Before becoming a therapist, Mike built a career in the performing arts, which shapes how he connects with artists and makers.

Session Details

Sessions offered: In person and online

Location: Modern Thrive Counseling, Madison, WI Madison Main Office

Session length: 53 minutes

Fees: $180 individual, $200 for couples 

Insurance: In network with Quartz, Dean Health Plan, and The Alliance. Superbill available for out-of-network. Couples sessions are private pay.

Free consultation: Yes - All consultations are with our Founder, Amy Harvat

Accepting new clients: Yes

Ready to Get Started?

If you are looking for a therapist who stays engaged and helps you make real change, reach out for a free consultation. Real change can happen.