Emily Kotajarvi, LMFT

Therapy for Teens & Adults in a LGBTQIA+ Safe Space in Madison, WI

Meet Emily

Hi, I’m Emily. I empower adolescents and adults to navigate and overcome obstacles using an integrative, strengths-based approach. I make a commitment with clients to strengthen their ability to identify the thoughts and behaviors that keep them from moving forward, so they can transform those patterns and develop new insight into their experiences.

Who I work with:

  • Teens and adolescents facing anxiety, school stress, or big life transitions

  • Neurodivergent teens and adults who want to feel understood

  • Adults working through anxiety, depression, or OCD

  • Military families navigating stress, moves, and life changes

  • LGBTQIA+ clients who want an affirming, judgment-free space

  • Young adults rebuilding self-esteem or facing a hard life change

My Approach & Style

I strive to help clients build positive, secure knowledge of themselves in order to improve their wellbeing and their relationships. I place great emphasis on open and honest communication, encouraging reflection on past successes and challenges, meaningful exploration of your story, and the formation of new skills. It truly is a privilege to support the people in my care in creating a space where they feel their story is heard and understood, and where they can see themselves as a whole, multidimensional person who not only faced challenges but grew from them.

About Emily

Emily Kotajarvi, LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist at Modern Thrive Counseling in Madison, WI. She has worked across community and clinical settings with people whose unique experiences call for care that honors each person as a valuable individual.

Emily earned her MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Edgewood University in 2015.

Session Details

Sessions offered: In person and online

Location: Modern Thrive Counseling, Madison, WI & Waunakee beginning in September

Session length: 53 minutes

Fees: $180 individual, $200 for couples 

Insurance: In network with Quartz, Dean Health Plan, Group Health Cooperative, and The Alliance. Superbill available for out-of-network.

Free consultation: Yes - All consultations are 10 minutes over video with our Founder, Amy Harvat

Accepting new clients: Not currently accepting new clients

Ready to Get Started?

If you want a collaborative space to work through anxiety, depression, or a difficult season of life, reach out for a free consultation.